I’m not cheap.

I’m not cheap because I’m pragmatic and personal. When I take on cases head-on, it’s an intimate coaching service. I do things as thoroughly as I possibly can.

When I help people, we take the time we need to dig around in private matters. It’ll take time and be a hassle, but it’s for a good cause. These are complex matters. It’s necessary to discuss what matters, trust the process, and have a good enough relationship to get things done together. I’m doing this because I care about you and your results – and it has been shown to give outstanding results to people before.

When looking at how people work, what they do, and how the world around us has evolved way faster than us, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to state that people don’t seem to be made for today. Despite that, it’s obviously their fate. We can’t change the whole world. In a minuscule way, it’s possible to alter the world around us, but most of us can’t impact any significant part of it. But we can change ourselves and choose to accept the world we live in. To handle the modern way of life and still feel well, it seems as if some people need to learn a few things about what to focus on.

Many of us obviously think we’re made to live in the modern world since it’s the only thing around. Kind of like fish in the ocean taking water for granted. If that fish happens to get into the wrong type of water, deep sea into shallow or fresh into salt, that would be comparable to people today. It’s not instant – but it isn’t good. It’ll slowly poison the fish, and it might even be fatal before long. We’re not made for the environment – and there’s not much help to get when we happen to get into the wrong water unless we figure it out ourselves.

Healthcare misses the target far too often since people are complex when it comes to life and stress. These questions are trickier than a pill. In all too many cases, they are practically invisible when they sneak up on you, come gradually, and then make you completely broken. Then, you’ll need that holistic approach, which seems to be hard to find. Some tend to brains, some to pills, some to the physical aspects, and some to other pieces of people. It quickly sums up to plenty of people and a lot of appointments if there are a lot of symptoms.

When healthcare doesn’t have the time, energy, or resources to take care of, get to know, and manage the entire individual but just the “diagnosis”, you might need something else. I want to help people who suffer and are helpless when healthcare doesn’t help, regardless of if that’s because they don’t have the resources or the interest.

Some question if the industry should be defined as healthcare, wellness, life-coaching with a focus on escaping misery, help to self-help, or something entirely different?

I’ll be the life- and health coach, therapist, support, leader, and friend you’ll need. I want to do what’s necessary for you to succeed in achieving the goals we’ve set.

As long as we find something that makes you progress, that ought to be what matters, and you’ve got my full support.

If you suppress anxiety, relax muscles and get pain relief with THC – I’m glad you’ve found a tool that works!

If you manage to break through the darkness in their depression by using psilocybin – awesome! We don’t use it within healthcare yet, but I’m nothing but pleased if that’s working for you.

Did you find pleasure and stress relief for the first time trying hardcore BDSM? Well… Creative idea! Well done.

I try to ask about,
I try to reason about,
and I try to discuss
EVERYTHING that might be relevant
to those I tend to.
Nothing’s holy.

This is not just talk therapy.

We will, however, not settle with just talking. There are plenty of people who’ve been helped by talk therapy alone in different issues, I’m sure, but I’m quite certain that we need a change in these cases. To get tangible, pleasing results, we need to make substantial changes. If change is NOT what you’re searching for, but you rather want more of a speak-your-mind- and ease-your-heart-approach, I’m not your choice.

I’m not a doctor, and I don’t play one on the internet. I can not and will not prescribe any medications. We will, in our relationship, settle with what’s available without them. Although, I do not mind medications prescribed by others as long as they are helpful or necessary. In your relationship with me, we will have a broader perspective and change things you can control yourself.

From these first parts, you ought to have a decent clue about how I’m see this, and you might know if the coaching is a good fit for you. It doesn’t have to be. It’s not for everyone. If you’re curious but unsure, keep reading and checking things out – or feel free to get to www.mbdolor.com/contact to ask about it, and we’ll see if I can help you.

Entire article series:
Patric’s Purpose
Bio-Psycho-Social Perspective
What Is Coaching?
Does Coaching Fit You?
I’m Not Cheap.
Worth Thinking Of